2020 is the year which nobody generally wants to be remembered. Obviously Not, but none of us actually can erase it from the memory as well. With so much suffering from many months, Seen many people suffering and dealing with their own problems. It is not so easy to be in one place, doing the same repetitive job. No breaks, No vacation, No family time, No Fun. Being at one space and no other way to divert the mind is challenging and but people have overcome with it so positively.2020 is the year which nobody generally wants to be remembered. Obviously Not, but none of us actually can erase it from the memory as well. With so much suffering from many months, Seen many people suffering and dealing with their own problems. It is not so easy to be in one place, doing the same repetitive job. No breaks, No vacation, No family time, No Fun. Being at one space and no other way to divert the mind is challenging and but people have overcome with it so positively.
We have given so much of ourself to our culture and religion, that we never thought a year would come where we won’t be able to get ourselves be involved in all this. No matter what would happen, We have never left an opportunity to celebrate anything around us. And for the first time Virus has taught us that things can settle down easily.
The first and foremost learning is “Survival is Important” It means nothing matters. It’s fine if we don’t go for a movie, It’s fine if we don’t have holidays, It’s fine we don’t go out for lavish dinners. Till the time we are safe, till the time we have food, shelter, and our beloved is safe. Everything else in the world doesn't matter. Survival is what matters to the core.
Your work is not going to help you with your survival lifelong. It’s family and their support does. Yes, “You choose a career, Career doesn’t choose you.” And Whatever you put hands-on, That automatically becomes your career. Hence it important to be focused but only to its dedicated time. You just can't be so selfish to humanity. You just can't. Look around see the people and their suffering. Look what all they facing, It might be easy for one. On the other hand, it is not easy for the rest of the world.
Changes and struggles are the parts and parcel of life. The only things which can handle these in one's life are “Acceptance”. You just need to accept that, changes come with real struggle of life and allow you to fight back and win. So struggle hard, feel the pain, be in stress and win the war. It's a time to prove yourself, to you, that you are superbly strong.
Feel the pain of others, “If you look into your problems it will always sound big. If you start looking at other's problems, you will start loving your problem.” And get the motivation to fight back and make others fight back.
Alone is not depressing at all. You need to know that your journey, your battle is only yours. There are the people cheering you up and there are the people pulling you down. But whatever they do it’s all vocal. Action has to be performed by you. Alone you will be impacted, You are a fighter alone and you will win it All Alone.
Positivity, Peace and happiness are human’s Luxury. If you have a life filled with positivity, peace and happiness. Then nobody has the power to break you down. You have learnt the mantra of living.
Patience is the most precious gift we have got from the situation. Just unwind and look at your past, think what all things you could have done for the sake of nature, the sake of humanity. Think, how you were just running. There was no time, no break, nothing. You were just running behind something you want. And see if you were really looking for that. is it that which you really want? You started developing patience of understanding your past, present and your future.
Nature is giving us a chance to think about all our life. Whatever we did wrong, whatever we have missed out. It is allowing us to re-create the list of life. where we just need to show love, gratitude and thankful for whatever we have. and whatever we can give others.
Whatever happens, there is always a reason behind it. Search for it and feel gratitude towards it. Be thankful, grateful and kind to others.
This what the real life is ....:)
Happy Living !!
- Nitya Bakshi